Making a Differencewith Pastor Phil Erickson

Jan 13th The High Cost of Unbridled Anger and Lust

Listen to Today’s Passage – Genesis 33 – 35

Follow along on Blue Letter Bible – Genesis 33 

(Second Milers also read – Matthew 25 – 26; Proverbs 13; Psalms 61 – 65)

Listen to this morning’s Scripture Song – Psalm 55:17

Read the “0113 Evening and Morning“ devotion for today, by the Charles Spurgeon.

Read a previous post from today’s reading – “Lead On Softly,” and “Worried Over Nothing“

“And it came to pass on the third day, when they were sore, that two of the sons of Jacob, Simeon and Levi, Dinah’s brethren, took each man his sword, and came upon the city boldly, and slew all the males.” (Genesis 34:25)

“And it came to pass, when Israel dwelt in that land, that Reuben went and lay with Bilhah his father’s concubine: and Israel heard [it]. Now the sons of Jacob were twelve:” (Genesis 35:22)

Boys Will Be Boys

Jacob’s household was full of boys—and full of trouble. I grew up in a home with four boys. We were blessed to not have any sisters. Girls have cooties: at least that is what I was told as a boy. In fact, even in my extended family, on my dad’s side, there were only boys. I had six male cousins, but no girls. I remember my grandmother would often get frustrated with our bad behavior. We were always fooling and fighting. We were being boys. She would often go get my dad and tell him: “Those Boys!” I must have heard that phrase come out of her lips a thousand times, and it usually meant that we were in trouble.

Simeon and Levi’s Wrath

Jacob also had a bunch of boys that would often find themselves in trouble. In fact the verses above tell of the shenanigans that three of the sons were involved in. The first involved sons numbers two and three: Simeon and Levi. (I was often referred to by number as a child as well.) It seems that these boys wanted to exact revenge upon a local hooligan that had raped their sister. Now, there is nothing wrong with these boys wanting to see justice done to this guy; but they took it way too far. Without the permission of their father, they go into this man’s village and kill every male. Jacob later recalls the event and says that the boys were instruments of cruelty, and that their anger was fierce (Gen 49:5 – 7). I don’t blame them for the way they felt, and I do not fault them for desiring revenge. I have three daughters of my own now, and I don’t even want to think about what I would do if this happened to one of them. Punishment for Shechem’s actions was justifiable but it needed to be done God’s way and His timing.

There will be many times in life where our passion, and our anger need to be yielded to the will of God.

Reuben’s Lust

If Simeon and Levi represent the danger of uncontrolled anger, the firstborn Reuben shows us the destructiveness of uncontrolled desire. This man also had a big problem with passion, but with him it was a sick lust for a lady related to him by marriage. This man had sex with his father’s concubine (kind of a second-class wife). His fleshly desires were out of control. He was certainly not considering the will of God when he did this. Consider for a moment the depravity of the human heart. Your heart and my heart. We need to yield our members as instruments of righteousness; and we need to walk in the Spirit so that we will not fulfill the lusts that are inside each of us.

Long-term Consequences

Unfortunately for these boys there were some severe consequences for their actions. You will recall that the boys involved in these two incidents were boys one through three, right? Reuben, the firstborn, should have received the preeminence and blessing of the birthright, but he lost it. Simeon and Levi were passed over because of their violence. The scepter—the promise of rulership—went to son number four, Judah. And from Judah came the Lion of the tribe of Judah: Jesus Christ. The only thing good that came from Reuben is a tasty sandwich with Pastrami (or Corned Beef), Sauerkraut, and Swiss Cheese. The bottom line is that I want to exhort you to think before you allow your passions to take control. An act of passion takes only a moment, but the consequences are long term. Please, walk with God. Run every decision, every word, every act past His desk. Let Him control your passions.

A Failure in Leadership

One more thought regarding the story of Simeon and Levi. The slaughter in Shechem by Jacob’s sons, though caused initially by Shechem’s actions toward their sister, could have been avoided had Jacob took more decisive action. He was willing to let the rape of his daughter go unpunished and was further willing to yoke up with a bunch of ungodly people. Though what Simeon and Levi did was wrong, it prevented Israel from becoming inundated with godless philosophies. Marriages with godless people has always been a problem for Israel and God will later warn His people strongly against intermarrying unbelievers (Exod 34:15 – 16; Deut 7:3 – 4; 2 Cor 6:14).

Questions for Reflection

• When have you experienced or witnessed anger that started as a desire for justice but went too far? How does the story of Simeon and Levi challenge the way you handle offense or protect those you love?

• Reuben’s sin was impulsive and private—yet it carried public, lasting consequences. Where in your life are passions or desires threatening to override God’s authority, even in seemingly “small” decisions?

• Jacob called Simeon and Levi “instruments of cruelty” because they used God-given strength in their own way rather than God’s. In what areas of your life (anger, sexuality, ambition, words) are you tempted to wield God-given gifts as instruments of cruelty or selfishness instead of righteousness?

• What is one specific passion, reaction, or decision you need to bring before the Lord today and ask Him to bring under His authority? How will you practically “run it past His desk” this week?

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