Not Another Word! Learning to Accept God’s Final Answer

Today’s Passage – Deuteronomy 3 – 5 (Click on the references to listen to the audio – Click here to view the passage from Blue Letter Bible)

(Second Milers also read – 1 Corinthians 13 – 16; Proverbs 2; Psalms 6 – 10

Listen to this morning’s Scripture song – SSPsalm 92:1 – 4

Read the “0302 Evening and Morning” devotion for today, by the late Charles Haddon Spurgeon.

When we were kids, we used to drive our parents crazy asking for things. We would keep asking over and over again until they finally acquiesced to our request, or until they got angry and said, “enough is enough – not another word!”

Moses’ Plea and God’s Final “No”

“23 And I besought the LORD at that time, saying, 24 O Lord GOD, thou hast begun to shew thy servant thy greatness, and thy mighty hand: for what God is there in heaven or in earth, that can do according to thy works, and according to thy might? 25 I pray thee, let me go over, and see the good land that is beyond Jordan, that goodly mountain, and Lebanon. 26 But the LORD was wroth with me for your sakes, and would not hear me: and the LORD said unto me, Let it suffice thee; speak no more unto me of this matter.“ (Deut 3:23–26)

In our passage today we have Moses asking the Lord to change His mind about letting him enter into the land. Moses had been leading the nation for over 40 years, delivering them up to the border of the Promised Land. He had put up with all of their problems and complaints. You would think that God would have cut Moses some slack, and let him see what he had been working toward for a good portion of his life. But God had already told Moses “no”. God is not like us, either: when He says “no” He means no. God told Moses, “Let it suffice thee; speak no more unto me of this matter.” He basically told Moses to quit asking. He wanted Moses to be content with God’s will, whether or not it seemed fair.

Paul’s Thorn and God’s Sufficient Grace

“7 And lest I should be exalted above measure through the abundance of the revelations, there was given to me a thorn in the flesh, the messenger of Satan to buffet me, lest I should be exalted above measure. 8 For this thing I besought the Lord thrice, that it might depart from me. 9 And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.” (2 Cor 12:7–9)

Paul had a similar situation in the New Testament. He had a thorn in the flesh that He wanted God to take away from him. He asked God three times to remove it. God finally told Paul to stop asking. He wanted Paul to be content with the thorn, which for some reason was the will of God. He told Him that He would give him grace to go with the thorn, and that He should be content with that because it is sufficient.

When to Stop Asking – Biblical Balance

I think it is just human nature for us to keep asking for things. By the way, there is nothing wrong with asking, and God even wants us to keep asking over and over again for the same thing. Persistent prayer honors God (Luke 18:1–8), yet submission to His revealed will is equally vital (James 4:15). But eventually there will come a point when He will answer. He will either grant you the desire, or He will tell you “no.”

Another biblical example that comes to mind is when David begged God with prayer and fasting not to let his child die. God said “no” to that request as well. David’s response was worship:

“16 David therefore besought God for the child; and David fasted, and went in, and lay all night upon the earth. … 19 But when David saw that his servants whispered, David perceived that the child was dead: therefore David said unto his servants, Is the child dead? And they said, He is dead. 20 Then David arose from the earth, and washed, and anointed himself, and changed his apparel, and came into the house of the LORD, and worshipped: then he came to his own house; and when he required, they set bread before him, and he did eat.” (2 Sam 12:16, 19–20)

Application: Embracing Contentment Today

When He tells you “no,” quit asking, and then be content with His will coupled with His grace. If you really needed what you were asking for, He would have given it to you (Phil 4:19). Be satisfied with what you do get, and know that God knows what is best. Perhaps someday we will understand a little better why God answered the way He did, but for now, just trust Him.

In my years at Jersey Shore Baptist Church, I’ve counseled many who struggled with unanswered prayers, and I’ve had many of my own. Every once in a while I dream about doing something else besides pastoring. Or, I think about moving to a new area, maybe out west in the mountains (I love the mountains). However, God always reminds me that He called my wife and I to Jersey Shore Baptist to pastor this church and He will let me know when He wants me to do something else.

Have you experienced God’s “no” that later proved His grace was sufficient? Share in the comments below—your story may encourage someone else!

“Lord, help me accept Your answers—even the ‘no’s’—with trust in Your perfect plan. What request have I been clinging to that I need to surrender today? Amen.”


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Korah’s Rebellion: When Discontent Destroys the Church

Listen to today’s passage – Numbers 16 – 18 

Follow along on Blue Letter Bible – Numbers 16 

Second Milers also read – Acts 22 – 24; Proverbs 21; Psalms 106 – 110

Listen to this morning’s Scripture Song – Psalm 121

Read the “0221 Evening and Morning“ devotion for today by Charles Spurgeon.

Read a previous post from this passage – “Standing Between the Living and the Dead,” and “A Tithe of a Tithe”

“Seemeth it but a small thing unto you, that the God of Israel hath separated you from the congregation of Israel, to bring you near to himself to do the service of the tabernacle of the LORD, and to stand before the congregation to minister unto them?” – (Numbers 16:9)

“And it came to pass, as he had made an end of speaking all these words, that the ground clave asunder that was under them: And the earth opened her mouth, and swallowed them up, and their houses, and all the men that appertained unto Korah, and all their goods. They, and all that appertained to them, went down alive into the pit, and the earth closed upon them: and they perished from among the congregation.” – (Numbers 16:31-33)

In chapter 16, we see a group within the congregation of the children of Israel who were rebelling against the God-ordained leadership of Moses. One of the leaders of this insurrection was Korah, who was a Kohathite. The Kohathites were part of the tribe of Levi, but their specific responsibility involved transporting the ark and the other pieces of furniture and instruments that were used in the service of the Tabernacle. They were not priests, but they were servants for the Lord in the Tabernacle.

In verse 9, Moses rebukes Korah for not being content with the job that the Lord had given him. Korah wanted more. He wanted to grab some of the glory that he saw Moses and Aaron getting. It reminds us of Lucifer, who was not content guarding the holiness of God. He wanted more too; he wanted to be like the “most High” (see Isaiah 14:12-14). This rebellion resulted in the death of Korah, along with the other men involved and their families. Further, many more people from the congregation perished the next day after they complained about the death of Korah.

You would think that Moses would have been very happy that God was removing all these “nelly naysayers” from the congregation. However, in Numbers 16:41-50, we see him interceding to God for these folks. Verse 48 tells us that Moses “stood between the dead and the living; and the plague was stayed.” A true spiritual leader will have a broken heart for the people within his congregation that are rebelling against his leadership.

We see this same type of behavior today in our local churches. God puts in place leadership for the congregation, but there will always be some Korahs within the congregation who will become disgruntled and some will even attempt to gain control. The process usually begins with murmuring and complaining about the job that the pastor and other leaders are doing. They will often grab the ears of other disgruntled people and try to bring them in with them. Before you know it, there is a group of people within the congregation who are gaining power, working against what the leadership is trying to do. It won’t be long before it comes to a head. Somebody will have to go. Sometimes it’s the pastor. Sometimes it will be the Korahs of the congregation; but when he leaves, he usually pulls a bunch of people out with him.

While legitimate concerns should be raised respectfully and through proper channels, chronic murmuring that undermines God’s appointed leadership often reveals a heart issue.

God has set up the leadership structure in our churches today and we can usually trust the process. He calls a man to a ministry. That calling is then confirmed by a vote of the congregation. The congregation still has the power to remove the pastor and other leaders if there are serious enough issues. But usually, unless there is something immoral, heretical, or seriously unethical, the congregation should rally behind the pastor and leaders, pray for them, and work with them as they lead the congregation in the fulfillment of the Great Commission.

At Jersey Shore Baptist Church, the senior pastor and deacons are voted on by the congregation. All other leaders are appointed or at least approved by the senior pastor. Other churches may have elders or assistant pastors that are voted on by the congregation. Ultimately, the congregation and God have the final authority.

Don’t be a Korah. Support your pastor and the other leaders that God has placed within your church. Work with them. Help them as they try to win souls and disciple new converts. Pray for them and their families. Love them by making sure their needs are met. You may not appreciate or agree with every decision they make, and you may have some concerns about the ministry direction they are going, but you can still be patient and offer your support for their leadership. And, in the case that you absolutely cannot cheerfully support the leadership within your church, find a church where you can, but carefully and prayerfully consider also that the problem may very well be you.

Notice the three admonitions given in the Letter to the Hebrews regarding spiritual leadership:

“7 Remember them which have the rule over you, who have spoken unto you the word of God: whose faith follow, considering the end of their conversation. … 17 Obey them that have the rule over you, and submit yourselves: for they watch for your souls, as they that must give account, that they may do it with joy, and not with grief: for that is unprofitable for you. … 24 Salute all them that have the rule over you, and all the saints. They of Italy salute you.” (Hebrews 13:7, 17, 24)

A Note to Pastors and Spiritual Leaders

An additional note should be made here regarding leadership. Moses was not a dictator. He was the appointed representative of God who directed him personally – face to face. Leaders today are not dictators either. They are appointed to follow the principles of Scriptures and the guidance of the Holy Spirit. They are to be servant leaders who model what they are directing their congregations to do. Peter summed up spiritual leadership. He stated:

“1 The elders which are among you I exhort, who am also an elder, and a witness of the sufferings of Christ, and also a partaker of the glory that shall be revealed: 2 Feed the flock of God which is among you, taking the oversight thereof, not by constraint, but willingly; not for filthy lucre, but of a ready mind; 3 Neither as being lords over God’s heritage, but being ensamples to the flock. 4 And when the chief Shepherd shall appear, ye shall receive a crown of glory that fadeth not away.” (1 Pet 5:1–4)

Paul also gave qualifications for leadership in 1 Timothy 3 and Titus 1, and he expressed his heart regarding leadership when addressing the elders from Ephesus:

“28 Take heed therefore unto yourselves, and to all the flock, over the which the Holy Ghost hath made you overseers, to feed the church of God, which he hath purchased with his own blood. 29 For I know this, that after my departing shall grievous wolves enter in among you, not sparing the flock.” (Acts 20:28–29)


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The Greener Grass Trap: What Lot’s Choice Teaches Us About God’s Will

Today’s Passages – Genesis 13 – 16 (Click on the references to listen to the audio – Click here to view the passage from Blue Letter Bible)

(Second Milers also read – Matthew 9 – 10; Proverbs 5; Psalms 21 – 25)

Read the “0105 Evening and Morning“ devotion for today, by the late Charles Haddon Spurgeon.

Listen to this morning’s Scripture song – Psalm 119:105

Read previous posts from today’s passage – “Plain Stupid;” “Back to Square One – Almost;” “Balanced and Biblical Separation;” “Relationships are More Important than Riches;” “Who is Melchizedek;” and “Good Friends are Hard to Come By.”

Have you ever been tempted to move for a better job, bigger house, or more exciting city—only to wonder later if you left God’s best behind?

“And Lot lifted up his eyes, and beheld all the plain of Jordan, that it was well watered everywhere, before the Lord destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah, even as the garden of the Lord, like the land of Egypt, as thou comest unto Zoar.” (Genesis 13:10)

“But the men of Sodom were wicked before the Lord exceedingly” (Genesis 13:13)

Returning from Egypt: Contrasting Desires

Have you ever been tempted to move for a better job, bigger house, or more exciting city—only to wonder later if you left God’s best behind?

The story of Lot is really a sad one. Lot came from the same stock as Abraham, lived in the same places, seemingly had the same training and influences; yet Lot had dreams and desires that were diametrically opposite to those of Abraham. In the account given us here in Genesis 13, we see Abraham and Lot both returning from a time of sojourning in Egypt. Egypt was certainly a busy place loaded with people. It had  culture, education, and more pleasures than Lot had ever seen. Abraham had his fill of the big city. He wanted to get back to the place in Canaan where he built an altar for the Lord; the place where God promised to bless him. You see, Abraham finally realized that he didn’t need all of the excitement of the big city – he just needed God.

Have you ever found yourself missing the ‘excitement’ of your old life before Christ?

Strife Over the Land

Not long after they returned to Canaan, the land of promise, it seemed that Lot and Abraham began to fuss about the size of land their cattle were grazing on and whether or not it was big enough to provide for both of their herds. These men were both already very wealthy, yet it seems that Lot wanted more. Maybe he was tired of living under the shadow of Uncle Abraham. Maybe he didn’t like all of those righteous rules that Abraham governed his home by. Lot missed Egypt. He missed the exhilaration of the city life. Abraham senses Lot’s frustration and offers to let Lot separate from him. I am sure he divided up the livestock and sent Lot away with plenty. He also gives Lot the pick of the surrounding land. He told Lot that if he chose east, he would go west. You see, Abraham didn’t need what this world could offer him: he only needed God. It seems that he had learned much from the errors of his previous move into Egypt.

The Lure of Sodom

Lot, however, decides that Sodom is the place he ought to raise his family. I believe that there were three attractions that lured Lot to Sodom:

1      There were lots of people in Sodom. Now there is nothing wrong with people. I love people and, more importantly, God loves people. Jesus died to save people. However, it seems that whenever you get a lot of people grouped together in one place, wickedness just pours right in. Verse 13 tells us that Sodom was an exceedingly wicked place. Lot should have been repulsed by it, yet instead he was enamored by it. By the way, his attraction to this large number of people was clearly not for the purpose of evangelizing them. We will learn later in chapter 19 that Lot influences no one in the city for God.

2      There was a lot of pleasure in Sodom. He said it reminded him of Egypt. The Bible tells us that there is pleasure in sin for a season; but the wages of that kind of pleasure is death. Lot was attracted to the fast life.

3      Thirdly, we see that Sodom was a place of wealth and prosperity. There was plenty of money in Sodom. It was well watered.  The livestock would do well there. Lot saw the chance to make some good money: maybe even a little more than ole Uncle Abe. Again, there is nothing wrong with money. I like what money can buy; but the love of money is the root of all evil. Lot wasn’t really concerned with the wickedness because all he could see was the dollars.

Which of these—people, pleasure, or prosperity—tempts you most today?

Don’t Chase Greener Grass

Through the years, I have seen a lot of saved people (remember, the Bible calls him “just Lot”) make the same mistake that Lot made. They leave the place of blessing where God is protecting them and providing for them, only to trade it in for a place where they think the grass is “well-watered.” My pastor in Bible College used to say that the grass may look greener, but it just might be artificial turf. Be very careful that you stay inside the perfect will of God. Don’t trade in the spiritual, eternal blessings for the temporary pleasures of this world.

This week, pray about any ‘Sodom’ temptations in your life—and share in the comments how God is speaking to you.


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