Making a Differencewith Pastor Phil Erickson

Dec 14th Study to be Quiet

Today’s Passage – 1 Thessalonians 1 – 5; (Click on the references to listen to the audio – click here to view the text from the Blue Letter Bible website)

(Second Milers also read –Psalms 66 – 70; Proverbs 14)

Listen to this morning’s Scripture song – Ephesians 4:32

Read other posts from this passage – “What’s Right With It,” and “What’s Your Reputation Like?“

“9 But as touching brotherly love ye need not that I write unto you: for ye yourselves are taught of God to love one another. 10 And indeed ye do it toward all the brethren which are in all Macedonia: but we beseech you, brethren, that ye increase more and more; 11 And that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you; 12 That ye may walk honestly toward them that are without, and that ye may have lack of nothing.” (1 Thessalonians 4:9-12)

For more information regarding the historical context of the Thessalonian Letters, click here.

Many of us are drawn to 1 Thessalonians 4:13-18 and its glorious promise of the rapture. But the verses just before it (4:9-12) give us something equally vital: clear, everyday instructions for how we should live while we wait.

• Increase in Brotherly Love (vs. 9 – 10)

The first thought that I want to pull from this passage comes from the phrase “more and more” found in verse ten. We see this phrase also in verse one where Paul encourages them to “abound more and more” in their walk (behavior or lifestyle) and in pleasing the Lord generally. Here in verse ten, Paul is admonishing them to increase in their love for each other. 

“34 A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another. 35 By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.” (John 13:34-35)

Notice that the Lord said that this is how the world will know that we are truly believers. Paul commends the Thessalonians here for the love that they already had for other believers, not only within the city of Thessalonica but also throughout all of Macedonia, which included Philippi and Berea also.

• Living Quiet, Honest, and Diligent Lives (vv. 11-12)

The second thing that we see from these verses is Paul admonishing these believers to live honest, quiet, and simple lives, and to be hard working. The verb translated “study” (φιλοτιμεῖσθαι from φιλοτιμέομαι – philotimeomai), implies ambitious effort—making something your honorable goal. Paul is telling them that needed to work at this; to try hard to do it. 

The phrase “to be quiet” (ἡσυχάζειν from ἡσυχάζω – hēsychazō) means to cease or to rest, or to “hold your peace.” It is interesting the entire phrase “study to be quiet” could mean “work at resting” or “work at not working,” which is certainly strange, but what Paul is saying here is that they should work at being quiet.

Paul is urging them to make it their ambition to live quietly, to mind their own affairs, and to work diligently with their own hands. In an age of constant social media noise, outrage cycles, and performative busyness, striving to be quiet means curating our words, avoiding unnecessary controversy, and focusing on our own responsibilities.

• Why It Matters While We Wait

The idea of this whole passage is that these Thessalonians believers were to be a testimony to the world around them through their hard working, quiet, and honest lives. And Paul promises that besides being a good testimony to their neighbors, they will also be self-sufficient. They would “have lack of nothing.”

The Greeks were not typically fond of manual labor and hard work was often done by slaves. Paul set an example by working as a tentmaker to support himself. He will address this problem again in his second letter to them, where he rebukes some  for not working at all:

“6 Now we command you, brethren, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that ye withdraw yourselves from every brother that walketh disorderly, and not after the tradition which he received of us. 7 For yourselves know how ye ought to follow us: for we behaved not ourselves disorderly among you; 8 Neither did we eat any man’s bread for nought; but wrought with labour and travail night and day, that we might not be chargeable to any of you: 9 Not because we have not power, but to make ourselves an ensample unto you to follow us. 10 For even when we were with you, this we commanded you, that if any would not work, neither should he eat. 11 For we hear that there are some which walk among you disorderly, working not at all, but are busybodies. 12 Now them that are such we command and exhort by our Lord Jesus Christ, that with quietness they work, and eat their own bread.” (2 Thessalonians 3:6-12)

Paul’s stronger words in his second letter show how seriously he took this issue—and how relevant his counsel remains for us today. It is important, however to also point out that some people today face the opposite temptation—not idleness, but workaholism or hustle culture. Paul’s balance reminds us that faithful work honors God without becoming an idol.

• Questions to reflect upon:

1. Where am I tempted to be anything but “quiet” in my speech or online presence?
2. How can I grow “more and more” in practical love toward fellow believers this week?
3. Am I modeling diligent work in a way that commends the gospel to outsiders?

Revised 12/14/25